Sense and Sensibility – Review

“Sense will always have attractions for me.” ~ Sense and Sensibility, Jane Austen

It’s hard not to give way to preconceived expectations based on past experience, at least for me, in my reading. If I’ve read more than one book by an author and find a favorite, I will somewhat biasly hold all other works to the same standard. But I believe I’m starting to see the folly in my approach. (Although I will probably have a hard time changing such perspective but we will see)

Case in point: A few months ago, I read (loved) Persuasion. Anne Elliott is no Marianne, but she’s no Elinor either (when she was nineteen). Anne’s matured (she’s 27) and has learned her own mind and I believe she is probably one of my favorite Austen heroines so far. Elizabeth Bennett in Pride and Prejudice (P&P) may be a composite of Sense and Sensibility’s Elinor and Marianne, with Elinor being my favorite heroine in Sense and Sensibility (S&S). Maybe because as the older child in my family unit (I have a younger sibling who’s the favorite) like Elinor I have acted as a counselor, giving advice based on sound judgment while governing my feelings as Elinor did throughout this novel.

Sense and Sensibility is full of relationships and instead of discussing the basic synopsis of the book, I’d like to compare and contrast a few of the notable relationships.

Elinor and Marianne –

Elinor, this eldest daughter whose advice was so effectual, possessed a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counsellor of her mother, and enabled her frequently to counteract, to the advantage of them all, that eagerness of mind in Mrs. Dashwood which must generally have led to imprudence. She had an excellent heart;—her disposition was affectionate, and her feelings were strong; but she knew how to govern them: it was a knowledge which her mother had yet to learn, and which one of her sisters had resolved never to be taught.”

“but Elinor was careful in guarding her countenance from every expression that could give to her words a suspicious tendency.

“Marianne’s abilities were, in many respects, quite equal to Elinor’s. She was sensible and clever; but eager in every thing; her sorrows, her joys, could have no moderation. She was generous, amiable, interesting: she was everything but prudent. The resemblance between her and her mother was strikingly great.”

“Pray, pray be compelled and do not betray what you feel to everybody present.” ~Elinor to Marianne

I loved how Austen presents the close bond between the Dashwood sisters (they have a younger sister Margaret as well). Elinor and Marianne remain lovingly affectionate towards one another, desirous that each should have the true lover of their heart, as did Jane and Elizabeth Bennett in P&P. However, in Persuasion, Anne is the dependable, reliable sister but her closest companion and confidant is not any of her sisters. Instead she shares a deep affection and friendship with her neighbor, a motherly figure, Lady Russell (since Anne’s own mother is deceased). Austen presents various family dynamics in her writings and we ponder how such shape the personalities and character of the heroines in each story (mothers and daughters with no father in S&S, daughters and fathers with no mother in Persuasion, or fathers and mothers with daughters in P&P).

Edward Ferrrars and Robert Ferrrars

I wish as well as every body else to be perfectly happy; but like every body else it must be in my own way. Greatness will not make me so.” ~ Edward Ferrrars

Edward might be one of my favorite male characters in the book. Despite pressure from his mother to marry for social and financial reasons, Edward seems very determined to pursue what makes him happy. He’s honorable and kind even at the risk of his own happiness (insert swoon face – he’s so unlike Willoughby). At first appearance he seems uncertain and unmotivated, but Elinor sees the essence of his heart and so do we as readers becoming better acquainted with him as the book progresses.

Robert, Edward’s brother, is not charming or very endearing and quite the opposite of Edward. Isn’t this the case in many sibling relationships? Robert is content to allow his mother to make decisions for him (who he should marry) so he can live a life of comfort and convenience. But his decision at the end of the book did surprise me. I wonder if there was something more afoot Austen didn’t share with us? I’ve speculated with my #buddyreaders on bookstagram but I don’t want to spoil anything for those who haven’t read this one.

But while she (Elinor) wondered at the difference of the two young men, she did not find that the emptiness and conceit of the one, put her at all out of charity with the modesty and worth of the other. Why they were different, Robert explained to her himself in the course of a quarter of an hour’s conversation; for, talking of his brother, and lamenting the extreme gaucherie which he really believed kept him from mixing in proper society, he candidly and generously attributed it much less to any natural deficiency, than to the misfortune of a private education…

Is this my favorite Austen? No. Did I like it? Yes. Did I laugh and hold my breath in anticipation of what was to come? Yes. However, as was the case with Pride and Prejudice, I might appreciate it better the second time around, but I’ll definitely try to finish all the Austens on my list before doing so.

Stay tuned for thoughts on Emma my next Austen read in March.


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16 thoughts on “Sense and Sensibility – Review

  1. What an interesting review! They are all more or less my favorites when speaking of Jane Austen…LOL. Did I love P&P and re-read it more when I was in my 20s? Yes. But, don’t I love every Austen book I have read and find them all favorites in some way? Yes. I also identify strongly with Elinor! (Oldest child here, too!) Thank goodness I didn’t have her romantic trials. I found it delicious to see the other characters through her sage eyes and so poignant to be the only one (me, as reader) aware of how she suffered and rose up to every test.

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    1. I hope that is interesting in a good way 😆 I kept thinking about this book and I said, where’s my swoon worthy moment, like the letter in Persuasion (it’s the first Austen I read and loved right away.) Elinor’s conversation later in the book where she shares with Marianne what’s she endured for four months! Oh the dear soul. I loved her character and her sound mind. We will need to talk as I get ready for Emma


  2. This is my favorite by Austen. I’m due for a reread. THANK YOU for appreciating Edward. He’s my favorite of the Austen heroes. 🙂 I hope you love Emma! Austen is so multi-faceted. Every novel is unique and yet clearly Austen.

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    1. I will probably revisit Sense and Sensibility in the future. There’s a funny story about Pride and Prejudice I have. But I’m enjoying Emma so far, this is a very fast paced book especially in the beginning. In the ones I’ve read so far it takes me a little time to warm up but Emma, she’s very different but entertaining. I love how Austen presents something different in the characters and their relationships and backgrounds.

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  3. This was actually my first Austen novel, so it has a special place in my heart.. and I really loved Elinor and Edward a lot… until I found Elizabeth and Darcy 😜😜
    Great review.. 👍👍

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      1. Haha.. I actually abandoned P&P because I couldn’t get into it.. Then read S&S which I loved.. tat inspired me to go back and fall in love with Mr. Darcy 😍😍

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  4. I have reread all my Austen’s so often that they all feel like family now. Persuasion became my favourite some time in my early thirties when it overtook P&P in my affections. I have oodles of posts on my blog detailing my journey with Austen, but like you I’m a combination Elinor/Anne Elliot with a little Jane Bennett thrown in too.
    I cannot recommend rereading Austen highly enough. Every single time, I learn something new, see something in a new light, make a new connection & finish the books in awe of JA’s ability to weave her stories together so brilliantly.

    I look forward to see which one you read next 🙂

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    1. I can’t believe it’s taken me so long to start my Austen journey. I’m tempted to reread Persuasion again soon but I’m hoping to read Mansfield Park next and Northanger Abbey before the end of the year before I start rereading. I forgot about Love and Friendship, Teenage Writings and Lady Susan. I might get to those later but definitely the other 2 soon.

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      1. I forgot to mention that Adam @Roof Beam Reader hosts an Austen in August every year. It’s a great way to find likeminded bloggers & share the JA love.

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